Understanding Mental Health as a Multigenerational Issue
- Sareena Kalinani
- Jan 11, 2024
- 2 min read

Mental health isn't just about how we're feeling individually; it's woven into the fabric of entire families and passes down through generations, much like traits or family heirlooms. Let's unpack why mental health is a family affair and why that matters for everyone, not just those currently struggling.
It's in the Genes and in the Air
Genetic Threads: Just like eye color or height, mental health issues can run in families. If depression, anxiety, or more serious conditions like bipolar disorder or schizophrenia are common in your family tree, there's a chance these could pop up in future generations. It's not a guarantee, but it's part of the puzzle.
Learned Behaviors: Growing up, we learn a lot from our parents and grandparents, including how to handle (or not handle) our emotions and stress. If mom always hid her anxiety or dad never showed vulnerability, you might find yourself copying those patterns without even realizing it.
Sticky Situations: Families often share not just genetics but also environments. If one generation faced poverty or constant stress, it's likely the next one will too unless something changes. These situations can make mental health issues even stickier, passing from one generation to the next.
Silent Suffering: Ever noticed how some families never talk about "tough" things? If mental health is taboo in your family, it's hard for anyone to get help, leaving issues to fester and grow, often beyond one person's life into the next.
Breaking the Cycle
So, what can we do about this generational hand-me-down nobody asked for? A lot, actually.
Chat It Out: Make it normal to talk about mental health at home. Just like you'd ask someone about a sore throat, ask about feelings and struggles. Breaking the silence is step one.
Get Help When It's Needed: There's no shame in seeking therapy or counseling. Pushing for access to mental health care could be the thing that changes the game for you or your kids.
Educate Yourself and Others: Knowing is half the battle. Learn what signs to look for in yourself and others. The more you know, the better you can prevent or deal with problems.
Lean on Others: Build a support network. Friends, family, community groups, online forums—there are tons of resources out there. You're definitely not in this alone.
Why This Matters
Recognizing the multigenerational impact of mental health is crucial. It's not just about fixing a current problem but preventing future ones. By addressing mental health openly and with support, families can change their trajectories, making each generation healthier and happier than the last.
Mental health is a collective journey, and the more we can tackle it together, the less it has to be a burden anyone carries alone. Let's keep the conversation going and make mental health a priority, for our sake and for the sake of future generations.